elegant

  • the smell of cedar
  • rosewater
  • early music
  • discipline
  • silk
  • handmade lace
  • crystal
  • vernacular architecture, art, music, instruments, everything
  • lightly tarnished mirrors & silver
  • the World of Interiors magazine... for now
  • flower gardens
  • baths
  • moderation (in moderation)
  • facesitting
  • excellent quality black coffee drunk in small quantities
  • playing an instrument of almost any kind
  • not being on hormonal birth control. ovulating is wonderful
  • stone
  • wearing undergarments you find beautiful
  • smelling good
  • bidets

    • inelegant

  • getting a center part because it's popular, not because it's flattering
  • confusing advertisers pandering to your taste with actually having it
  • justifying yourself to others
  • complaining about your health incessantly online
  • repeating verbatim headlines you saw on reddit
  • heavy weightlifting & the culture surrounding it
  • kpop
  • doodle mutts
  • dog culture in general
  • candy

    • absurd

  • londoners buying country homes in the Cotswolds
  • trying to ape old money
  • if you're going to be into astrology, at least make it Hellenistic.
  • calling yourself a reader when you only read YA/NA fantasy romance
  • acting like it's unfeminist/classist/whatever to criticize only reading YA/NA fantasy romance
  • taking what i write too seriously
  • why are you trying to make me care what french or scandinavian girls think is fashionable? i've seen them. no thank you.

    • obscene

  • tiktok
  • the purseforum uniform
  • therapy speak
  • "here's what to buy in winter 2024" "the editor's top picks for updating your spring wardrobe" and similar articles
  • "mining for content"

    • tired

  • "girl rage" literature
  • cannibalism as a metaphor (it's perennial, just currently overdone)
  • winter
  • neutrals
  • cartier watches
  • US american boorishness & ignorance
  • western & northern european hubris
  • culture critique video essays by 22 year olds
  • sofia coppola
  • filler cheeks

    • pathetic

  • converting to catholicism
  • keto

    • i have no opinion on

  • matcha lattes
  • what's trending in LA or New York